- Picture Books
- Ages 5–9
- Contemporary

Mum's Jumper
After her mum dies, a young girl finds comfort in wearing her mother's jumper, still warm with her smell. A calm, honest and deeply reassuring picture book about the shape of grief and how we learn to carry it.
- Best for5–9
- FormatPicture
- Length32 pp
- Read aloud~6 min
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The vibe
What it’s like.
Style
- Lyrical
- Conversational
Tone
- Gentle
- Melancholic
- Bittersweet
- Heartwarming
Themes
Experience meters
What’s it about?
The story.
When a little girl's mum dies, the world turns strange and heavy. She and her dad move slowly through the numbness, the confusion, the flashes of anger, and the ache of a house that feels suddenly too quiet. Then, sorting through Mum's things, the girl finds her jumper, still holding the smell of her, and begins to wear it, wrapping herself in something that feels like a hug from someone who is gone. As the seasons pass, she comes to understand that grief is a bit like the jumper: it stays the same size, but slowly, gently, she grows into it. Jayde Perkin's tender, visually eloquent debut handles the death of a parent with rare honesty and grace, never sentimental, never frightening, but calm, truthful and full of quiet comfort. A vital, beautifully illustrated companion for any child, and any grown-up, finding their way through the loss of someone they love.
Fit check
Right for your child?
Where it lands by age
A gentle but unflinching picture book about a parent's death, best shared with 5-9s alongside a supportive adult, and meaningful for grown-ups too. It handles high-sensitivity content with calm honesty rather than fear, making it a trusted support for a bereaved family rather than a light read.
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- Best fit · 5–9
- Read aloud · 5–9
- Independent · 6–9
Prose load
Light
Visual support
Very high
Reluctant-reader friendly
Workable
Read-aloud quality
Strong
Works well for
- Reading aloud
- Reading together
Preview before sharing if a child is sensitive to: death of parent, grief.
Bedtime suitability
2 / 5 · Better outside bedtime
Sensitive-child
3 / 5 · Mostly fine
Graphic intensity
1 / 5 · None
Best for
- Grief support
- Bereavement
- Big emotions
- Sensitive conversations
Avoid if
- Wants light and funny
- Wants upbeat story
Particularly good for children who are…
- Bereavement
- Illness in family
Why it lands
Why they love it.
Why kids love it
Wearing Mum's jumper to feel close to her is something a grieving child instantly understands, and the book gives honest words to the big, muddled feelings, the numbness, the anger, the missing, without pretending it away. It says, quietly, that this is okay.
- Being understood finally
- Cosy safety
Why parents love it
Perkin's calm, unsentimental honesty and the jumper-you-grow-into metaphor give families a gentle, trustworthy way into the hardest conversation. It neither rushes the child towards being fine nor overwhelms them, and it holds space for the adult reading it too.
- Conversation starter
- Beautiful illustrations
- Great writing
- Cultural representation
About the author & illustrator
Jayde Perkin.
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