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Books for children who are being bullied

From gentle picture books about unkindness to honest graphic novels about the playground: books that help a child feel less alone.

14 booksAges 2–13Last reviewed June 2026

Few things wind a parent tighter than the suspicion that their child is being picked on, and few problems feel less fixable from the outside. Books won't end it, but they can do two useful things: help a younger child name unkindness and feel less alone with it, and let an older one see their own experience drawn honestly on the page.

This list runs from gentle picture books about standing tall when someone is unkind, through to graphic novels, many of them true stories, about the sharper social cruelty of the junior playground. We've ordered them youngest first, so you can find the right pitch for your child. The older titles in particular don't flinch: they show friendship groups turning, the loneliness of being frozen out, and, eventually, the way through.

  1. The Pout-Pout Fish and the Bully-Bully Shark

    The gentlest, youngest starting point: a literal bully, met at picture book scale.

  2. The Cool Bean

    A funny school-feelings picture book about wanting to be cool and discovering that kindness matters more.

  3. Giraffes Can't Dance

    A modern picture-book staple about Gerald the giraffe finding his own rhythm after the other animals laugh at him. A highly reliable read-aloud for confidence, difference and gentle anti-bullying themes.

  4. Odd Dog Out

    A warm, funny rhyming picture book about a dachshund who feels like the odd one out and goes searching for somewhere she fits. Excellent for difference, belonging, self-acceptance and children who love stylish dog-filled pages.

  5. Cyril and Pat

    A funny rhyming friendship story about a lonely squirrel and his unusual new friend. Great for read-aloud comedy, urban wildlife, difference, prejudice and children learning that friendship does not always look how others expect.

  6. Vlad, the Fabulous Vampire

    A fabulous, funny and visually stylish vampire story about hiding what makes you different and learning to be yourself. It is a strong confidence-builder for children who feel self-conscious or out of step.

  7. The Gecko and the Echo

    Whatever Gerald the gecko shouts into the canyon comes right back at him, so when he shouts something unkind, the echo isn't very pleasant. A near-perfect picture-book mechanism for teaching children that what you put out into the world comes back to you.

  8. Big Bright Feelings: Milo's Monster

    Milo has the perfect best friend, until his best friend makes a new friend. His jealousy grows into an actual monster. Tom Percival's most honest exploration of the ugly side of friendship, and what to do when you can't control how you feel.

  9. Real Friends

    The standout for slightly older readers (8+): an unsparing true story of a friendship group turning, and the loneliness of trying to stay inside it.

  10. Smile

    A landmark middle-grade graphic memoir about dental trauma, friendship pressure and finding confidence in your own face. It is one of the strongest gateway books for realistic graphic novels and reluctant readers.

  11. El Deafo

    A funny, generous and hugely important graphic memoir about growing up deaf and finding confidence. Essential for middle-grade graphic-novel shelves and one of the best empathy-building comics for children.

  12. Squished

    A warm, relatable middle-grade graphic novel about needing space in a big, loving, overwhelming family. It is a strong fit for Raina Telgemeier-adjacent readers who want realistic feelings rather than fantasy peril.

  13. Click: Clash

    A new-kid friendship story about jealousy, popularity and feeling replaced. It is one of the most emotionally recognisable Click books for children navigating changing friend groups.

  14. Be Prepared

    A sharp, funny graphic memoir about the painful gap between wanting to fit in and finding out that belonging is more complicated. It is especially strong for readers who like realistic graphic novels with awkwardness, honesty, and social detail.

How we choose these books

Every list here is shaped by hand. We begin from our catalogue’s structured data, age fit, tone, theme and reading load, then read back through the candidates and keep only the titles that genuinely belong, in an order that helps a child grow into the subject. Nothing is generated and left to stand; a person decides what stays.

Questions parents ask

What age are these books for?
The titles on this list suit roughly ages 2–13, though every child reads at their own pace; the age on each book is a guide, not a rule.
How were these books chosen?
We start from our catalogue's structured data, age fit, tone, theme and reading load, then read back through the candidates by hand and keep only the ones that genuinely belong, ordered to help a child grow into the subject.

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