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My Life on Fire
Cath Howe
Chapter · ages 9–12

My Life on Fire

Written and illustrated by Cath Howe

Part of the Cath Howe universeOpen the collection

After a house fire destroys everything she owns, a girl starts secretly taking other people's belongings to fill the hole, until she's caught and forced into a frightening bargain. A tense, tender story about loss, temptation and putting things right.

  • Best for9–12
  • FormatChapter

The vibe

What it’s like.

Style

  • Conversational

Tone

  • Warm
  • Bittersweet
  • Thought provoking
  • Suspenseful

Themes

On the pagehouse fire, stealing, family upheaval, collections, grandparents

Experience meters

Energy3/ 5
Humour1/ 5
Scariness2/ 5
Peril2/ 5
Wonder1/ 5
Cosiness1/ 5
Emotional intensity4/ 5
Conceptual intensity3/ 5

What’s it about?

The story.

When a fire tears through her home, Ren loses everything: her clothes, and above all her treasured collections of things, the little souvenirs and keepsakes that made her feel like herself. Her little brother Petie is inconsolable over his lost bear. Now the family is crammed into their grandmother's house, and everything feels precarious and wrong. Adrift and aching, Ren finds herself coveting other people's belongings, their clothes, hair clips and pens, and starts quietly taking them. It feels like a way to fill the emptiness, until she's caught and has to strike a terrifying deal to keep her secret. Meanwhile, thrown together with her kind classmate Caspar on the walk to school, Ren begins to see another way forward. Cath Howe's fifth novel is a gripping, sensitive story about family upheaval, the pull of taking what isn't yours, and the unexpected friendship that helps a girl find her way back.

Fit check

Right for your child?

Where it lands by age

Best for independent readers of 9-12, with emotional and moral complexity that suits the upper end most. The tense plot keeps it moving and it reads well shared with an adult from about 8.

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  • Best fit · 9–12
  • Read aloud · 8–11
  • Independent · 9–12

Prose load

Moderate

Visual support

None

Reluctant-reader friendly

Workable

Read-aloud quality

Workable

Moderate sensitivity1 content warning

Preview before sharing if a child is sensitive to: poverty or hardship.

Bedtime suitability

2 / 5 · Better outside bedtime

Sensitive-child

3 / 5 · Mostly fine

Graphic intensity

1 / 5 · None

Best for

  • Emotional realism
  • Family upheaval
  • School stories
  • Moral dilemmas

Avoid if

  • Wants light escapism
  • Wants gentle bedtime

Particularly good for children who are…

  • Moving house
  • Making friends
  • Anxiety and worry

Why it lands

Why they love it.

Why kids love it

Ren's compulsion to take other people's things is uncomfortable and gripping, and the deal she's forced into once she's caught cranks up real tension. Readers understand exactly why she does it, which makes rooting for her to put things right irresistible.

  • Being understood finally
  • Breaking the rules safely

Why parents love it

Howe takes a hard subject, a child stealing in the wake of trauma, and handles it with real empathy rather than judgement, tracing exactly how grief and upheaval can pull a good kid off course. A powerful conversation starter.

  • Conversation starter
  • Great writing

About the author

Cath Howe.

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Easier or preparing reads — perfect lead-ins.

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